Always bounce back - Form that intention

Does it occur to you that most of the current suffering is self-chosen for a regular person while often not self inflicted. Something bad happened in the past or of late, and you just ‘gave up’. I had done the same multiple times.

Not claiming any moral high ground. Fallible and at times unhappy, but who I am is who I am. That’s my motto.

Here are three others who bounced back from the kind of circumstances that most of us would dread to ever have to face. These real-life heroines are still going strong and will continue to do, come what may.

Here’s what they had to say. Read and connect with them. Their Instagram handles are included in their stories.

They’re my inspiration.

Komal Kukreja

"Don't take yourself too seriously, calm down and have fun doing what makes you happy". 

Enjoy your journey. 

Hi, 

I'm Komal Kukreja, the vivacious girl you will always find me smiling. 

I am the second child. There's a saying that the second child gets the least love from the family and has to takes care of the family. Which I didn't believe initially as I was the one who got immense love and care. 

When I was in 12th I took the responsibility of myself, I stopped taking pocket money from my dad like the other kids got and I started doing a part-time job. In the morning I used to go to college and noon to evening I used to work. My first salary was 3000 per month. 

After I completed my 12th I worked for a year with Mahindra as a customer care executive. 

After a year my manager made me realise education was important so I did my graduation from Sindhi college, yet did too many promotional jobs and part time jobs while studying. 

My manager at Mahindra was a gem of a person, he always motivated me. 

I'd say - "Surround yourself with the right people, who support you." 

Then after graduation I worked for various companies like ola, Celtics etc. 

Then I joined betterhalf.ai as an assistant manager. In a span of 4 months after joining I was promoted as a manager, it was such a proud moment for me. Be greedy for your ambition. Within a year I was promoted as a senior manager, then as a category manager then I built my own team. I worked here for 4 years and got 6 promotions. The work stress was so much after which I started getting health issues because of which I had to take a break. I left the job and been jobless for a year and the struggle that you go through is hard. Once I started working you get all the respect and love from the family and friends because I went out of my way and did things for them, killed my wishes and bought things they wanted to to see them smile. But when you have been jobless for a long time these are the same people who disrespect you and making you feel so demotivated from life. 

After all this, I started my home kitchen - "MiraclesOfSindh" the flavors of Sindhi cuisine. As I was starting something of my own, I was nervous obviously. The only thought I had was "Let's go for it". The girl who used to hate getting into the kitchen, has her own kitchen now.

All I would say is - "Keep smiling and this hard time shall pass soon. You cannot please everyone all the time"

I may not be exactly where I wanted to be but I'm so proud of how far I've come already. My journey has not been easy and I'm still making progress. 

I hope my story helps you get some motivation.

"Don't take yourself too seriously, calm down and have fun doing what makes you happy". 

@komal.kuk8

Bhanu

By Bhanu 

I was young when I discovered my passion for tennis. My inspiration came from my school and teachers, and I dreamed of competing with national-level players. But starting late meant I wasn’t as good as the others. So, I worked harder than anyone, practicing relentlessly to make up for lost time. The effort took a toll on my body, leading to frequent leg injuries. But I kept pushing, thinking that pain was just part of the journey.

Eventually, my body couldn’t keep up, and I had to let go of my dream. It was a tough decision, but I had to choose between survival and my passion. In that moment, I learned that not all dreams come true, but it’s the willingness to keep going, to find new hopes and dreams, that keeps us moving forward.

I turned to academics and worked hard, eventually landing a stable job. I became a confident, successful woman and life seemed to be on track. Then, I met the man of my dreams. We had an 8-year relationship, but what followed was an abusive marriage. It was a disaster, and yet, I believed I had to make it work. I felt responsible for my choices, but I also had to accept that sometimes, things fall apart.

When I had a child, I promised to give him the best of me. But life wasn’t done testing me. My son was diagnosed with a nervous disorder, and his treatment took a toll on all of us. It was heartbreaking, but I gave everything I had.

Then, I had to make a choice: to let go or to keep fighting. And though it broke my heart, I chose to let go. In 2022, I held my baby boy for the last time, saying goodbye as I watched him slip away. That same year, I lost my father—the person who had always been my backbone.

With a heart heavy with grief, I found the strength to keep going. It wasn’t easy, but I survived. Today, when I look back on all of this, I want to share one truth with you: Not all dreams come true. Not every plan works out. Not everyone gets a "happily ever after." But we decide what deserves our effort and what we need to let go of.

The power to choose is within us. That fire inside of you? Let it burn. Let it strengthen you. Even when tough decisions seem impossible, make the choice that works for the long run. I never could have survived this journey without my parents, my friends, and my manager at work. They were my support, my team, my strength.

So, if you're facing something tough right now—remember this: If I can make it this far if I can be happy with where I am today, so can you. Never let the fire in you die.

That fire inside of you? Let it burn. 

@ayuksbhanu

Juveria

Hi, I’m Juveria, and this is my journey of resilience and self-discovery.

At 16, I made a life-changing decision. I stopped relying on my father for money, took up a part-time job, and started supporting my education. It wasn’t easy, but it taught me independence and the value of hard work.

Life wasn’t always kind. I’ve seen the highs and lows, faced challenges that tested my character, and learned to navigate through them with strength.

At 26, I entered a new chapter: marriage. Adapting to a new home, new people, and societal expectations wasn’t easy. Like many women, I faced the question: to stay at home or pursue a career? Though I tried embracing the role of a homemaker, I realized my potential was too great to be confined.

After a tough journey, I secured a job at Deloitte. It was a milestone I will always cherish, but life didn’t stop testing me. My marriage faced struggles, yet we kept trying to make it work.

Then came the biggest turning point: becoming a mother. The birth of my child was both a blessing and a trial, as I found myself fighting for my life on a ventilator. The recovery was grueling, but the love for my son became my guiding light.

Motherhood transformed me. I found a calm, composed, and happier version of myself. My son’s smile became my world, my strength, and my reason to keep moving forward.

I worked tirelessly, not just for myself but for my family. I managed to buy a small flat, took care of my parents, and ensured they were secure—giving back for all they’ve done for me.

No matter how hard life gets, your perseverance and strength will pave the way for a brighter tomorrow. Trust the process, believe in yourself, and embrace the challenges—they’re shaping you into the best version of yourself. Life is full of ups and downs, but one thing remains true: never give up. Keep pushing forward, and you’ll find that the light at the end of the tunnel is worth every step of the journey.

You’ve got this!

Life is full of ups and downs, but one thing remains true: never give up

@juveriakusar77

Form that intention

I am not the only one who knows the way. I just happen to be the guy writing about this.

They bounced back from no win situations and overcame terrible circumstances, and so can you. Go for it and don’t hold back!

Just don’t keep waiting for it to just happen. It doesn’t work that way,

You have to make it happen.

Cognizance and timing are the key to the process.

Being intent is critical.

But forming that solid Intention comes first.